“I don’t care what people think”. Well, let’s take a look on the morality in our societies, since no one cares now. Don’t care, but respect!
Respecting yourself and respecting others, Not out of “care” for anybody but for the decency of your existence, would be a good start into getting our societies into a better morality state.
“Sometimes, We get hurt to know what is more valuable.”
Usually who really deserve to get hurt, is someone who has been careless about others, and would hurt anyone easily (some kind of karma).
But many of us were doing good and speaking good, however they still get hurt not once or twice buy over and over again. And it gets us asking the famous question. What have I done to deserve this??! -WHY ME-?.
Well, let me tell you “WHY?” – from my own perspective, and it’s a totally personal opinion-
Don’t we always get caught up with life? going with the flow? Don’t really know if the life we got is the best for us or not!. It just feel right at the moment because it’s all what we used to, and it’s our very comfort zone. nothing is changing and we feel good about it. maybe, just maybe we’re living like zombies thinking we’re in control but we’re just driven.
So what do you think would wake you up for the growth you’ve been missing? Or for the chance of the change you really need, not the change you might want?! sometimes we need a hit by something, not just a painful experience. it might be an event that would allow us to notice and see what we couldn’t see before. let me say, – A wake-up call-. It might sounds exaggerating or doesn’t seem to be convenient when we’re pushed forcefully out of our comfort zone. So, the truth that we might realize after being in so much pain, if we really looked carefully,- and we might not realize it any soon- is that there’s something valuable that we have been missing and we couldn’t realize it sooner because we have been taken with a distraction blinded us and disturbed the path to our growth. and as they say , no pain, no gain. It’s all a part of evolution and preparation of what comes next. Remember that you came to life through pain. and it’s only a price you have to pay to get what you deserve
let’s say getting hurt is just a catalyst to fasten the process.
(¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Aya